Day Two Reflection:
Let’s be real ladies. There are only 24 hours in a day and 7 days in week. Where in the world do we have the room to squeeze in “just one more thing”. But here is the problem with us. Saying yes is easy while saying no is simply too hard. For some odd reason, no seems to carry this negative connotation. It our minds ‘No’ is a rejection; something bad. The problem is when we don’t say ‘No’, we are adding more to our lives than we should. I read a blog post about this same topic and it said “saying yes to everything means you have no time for anything.” You can’t possibly go to every event when you’re invited. You can’t have coffee every time your friend calls. You can’t volunteer for every service project. You can’t bake the cookies for every school bake sale. You can’t lead every group study. You are one person. You can’t do it all.
“Saying yes all the time won’t make me Wonder Woman. It will make me a worn out woman”Chapter 12: The Awkward Disappointment of Saying No from The Best Yes
What does no really mean in our lives? Often times we pray for something. We want God to give us the green light to ‘go’. We want to hear a yes from Him. However, we get a ‘No’. Not for you. Not your time. Not right now. Days, weeks, or months go by and we begin to understand His ‘No’. It was for our own good. Even God gives us a powerful no so that He can give us a Best Yes. And guess what? He wants you to learn the Powerful No. Remember yesterday’s post was about wisdom. I hope you were encouraged to know that every decision you make, you should include God in your decision-making. See the connection here. When we are wise in our decision-making, we get to give our Best Yes! The reason why you need to say no to the PTA bake sale is because it is going to take up too much of your time organizing it and that time could have taken away from the task God was going to place on your to-do list. Or maybe your child will need some extra TLC after feeling defeated from a game. Or your husband finds out he is getting a promotion and wants to celebrate the good. We never know how we may need to be in position for a best yes. For a task that would bring God glory and honor. We just never know what God has in store for us and if we are too busy, we can’t make room for the Best Yes. Besides, you did the bake sale last year. Let someone else do that.
Here is the point:
- Don’t feel bad if you say no. I promise there are several people after you who will say yes.
- Acknowledge God in your decision-making. He will never steer you wrong.
- Save room on your schedule for you. There is nothing wrong with saying no so that you can unwind and relax.
Decision-making. Ugh. Should I say yes or no? @LysaTerKeurst is showing me there’s another choice: #TheBestYes. (http://goo.gl/ZFUZbD)
Decide what is important to you and start prioritizing things in your life. Make room in your life to give God, your family, your ministry your Best Yes! Why is it hard for you to say no? Is there something you need to remove from your plate to give more time to other important tasks? Comment. Like. Share.
Stay tuned for Day Three Reflection & remember, it’s a faith journey!
PS: The graphic from The Best Yes was from an old blogger tour by Lysa TerKeurst. She is a phenomenal author. This book is available on Amazon, Proverbs 31, Barnes & Noble, Lifeway, and other outlets. If you want to learn more and go deeper with this topic, I suggest adding it to your reading list. You won’t regret it!