4 Habits to Kick as We Get Closer to 2019

Let’s admit it girls. We all have habits that we need to get rid of before we toast cheers to 2019.  Carrying bad habits create unnecessary weights that can ultimately kill us our journey.  When we continue to allow negative habits to plague our lives, slowly but surely the light at the end of the tunnel will become dim.

Your ability to bounce back

is a testimony for your comeback!

Remember your why.  I’m in the process of planning a new venture, which is why I have not been busy with One Faith Journey.  Please forgive me.  (This is my confession girls) I’m having to make sure that I plan out my days, weeks, and the entire month ahead, including how I engage with you.  There are times where we may fall off the wagon a bit or even a few times due to busyness, family changes, work changes but always remember to find ways to bounce back. Your ability to bounce back is a testimony for your comeback!

As we coast into the 4th quarter of the year, ready to make that touch down, let’s commit to get rid of some habits that can and will hold us back from making the best of 2019.  We cannot, I repeat, we cannot take bad habits into 2019.  You are guaranteed to fail if you don’t kick these habits out the door.

  1. The Need to Please– We’ve all been bit by this bug and for some people this is not an issue.  BUT for those of us that have the bite mark still on us I want to encourage you to quit worrying about what others think.  Quit trying to appease to others.  What others think and want from you does not matter in terms of success.  Now don’t get me wrong, you have people in your tribe who want the best for you. They matter.  But for the naysayers, the questioners, the people who feel they have all the answers.  Bye Bye! You have to determine within yourself that no matter where you are on your journey, other people cannot and will not determine your level of joy.
  2. Stop Procrastination– Raise your hand if  you struggle with this! Me! Burning the midnight oil produces my best work.  For real ladies, it does.  But in reality the procrastination bug creates a sense of unnecessary rush and it takes away from my ability to rest.  My mind starts racing with all the words, work, thoughts, ideas trying to put pieces together as I get closer to the deadline.  When you have a deadline to complete a task, allow yourself some time daily to work towards the deadline.  You’ll walk away feeling more confident and accomplished in your work.
  3. Delaying Actions– The bible tells us to write the vision.  So many times we have written out our vision, given it to God and yet, we are afraid to move forward with our actions.  This fear comes because we want to know the outcome.  In this 4th quarter God wants to put our faith to work.  Pray away that fear and put your trust in Him.  There is no way for us to know the outcome for everything unless He shows us.  Your faith will become stronger if you only trust Him.  Your vision will come pass if you only trust Him.  The best thing you can do right now in this 4th quarter is take your leap of faith (and as I’m typing this, I’m speaking to myself).  When God gives you the vision, put your faith to work and watch God work!
  4. Taking on Too Much– I have to keep talking about this because I hear people say how tired they are or how much they are overwhelmed.  I want to encourage you to stop doing the work for people, stop overcommiting yourself, and stop saying yes to things that may take you away from your God-given tasks, tasks that will bring Him glory.  For example, I had to press pause on some tasks at church.  But it’s the work of the Lord, Tamika.  You’re right.  However, my first ministry is at home and when things became overwhelming in all that I was doing in church ministry, home became a second priority and that is not how God calls us to lead as mothers, wives, friends, etc. Take heed to the voice of God and allow Him to direct your path so that you know where your “Yes Lord” answers need to go.  For some it may be comforting a friend in need. For others it may be turning down a girls night out to minister to the homeless.  You may be a wife, daughter, leader, church facilitator or whatever.  When God can get the glory out of all we do, we are giving our best Yes.

Will you join me during this 4th quarter to kick these habits out the window? Will you join in me surrendering our fears, our procrastination, our busy schedules and our need to please over to God?

Here is a simple prayer to get us started on our journey toward a successful 4th quarter:

Lord we come boldly before your throne thanking you for your continuous grace and mercy for it is by your grace that we have not been consumed.  You gave us visions for our homes, our families, our businesses, our jobs, our marriages, and our lives because you know the plans you have for us.  Lord we surrender our fears, our need to please, our procrastination habits, and any other habit that may  hinder us we wrap up the year.  We trust that you will continue to be a lamp unto our feet and guide our paths so that we can give our best yes to your will because you deserve all of the glory.

In Jesus Name,


It’s a faith journey y’all.  We have to be pray for consistency in all facets of our lives so that we can get this touch down into 2019! Feel free to comment on how I can pray with you for a successful year end for your family, your life, your leadership, your business or any area in your life.


Tamika W.

P.S. I’m releasing some goodies this month.  Podcast coming this week & the weekly planner is ready to send next week.  If you are a subscriber, you’ll be the first to get a copy.  If you’re not subscribing do so today.


Spring Makeover: Tips, Tools & Giveaways! Oh My!

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Spring is finally in the air and what better way to celebrate then to do some….you guessed it, CLEANING! Wait! Before you close this post, I know what you’re thinking because I thought it too.  But this time of year is more than just out with the old and in with the new.  Spring is a time to refresh, recharge and reinvigorate your life in all facets.

What is cluttering your life that you know needs to be organized or all together removed?  I can think of several things right now.  To kick off my spring cleaning ritual, I started with a makeover of my schedule.  For the past two months, I have been forgetting important dates, time with family & friends, dates with Jesus (I KNOW RIGHT) and quality time with my husband.  I learned so much about me and came to realize that I cannot, I repeat, I cannot organize my schedule in my head.  And as much as I love technology, I cannot schedule everything in these apps I have.  #icant So what’s a girl to do?  This week, I went back to an old paper and pencil method.  There is something about the art of writing that turns me on! I created this weekly scheduler to remind me of IMPORTANT ACTIVITIES/EVENTS/APPOINTMENTS-doctor appointments, date night, family night, scripture reading, prayer time.  As I complete tasks, I cross them off the list. Done!

One exciting thing I love about spring cleaning is revamping my house.  It desperately needed some TLC in many areas.  Organization was must so my husband worked on the garage and I updated the decor.  For this I had to check in with my good friend, Keisha.  She is a GURU for home design, organization and much more.  She recommends that when you start spring cleaning with your house, change your scents based on the seasons.  So if you are a candle girl like me, go to Bath & Body Works and check out their new scents. Oh my god do they smell springy! Spring cleaning also means getting organized so create more space by using bins, baskets and storage containers in places like the closets, bathrooms, and cabinets.  Keisha has purchased organizational bins from places like Wal-Mart, Amazon and even the Dollar Tree.

For those of you who have already started spring cleaning and you find that you have some dead space like I did, she gave me some great ideas for revamping the foyer and window areas with benches, baskets, and pillows.  Don’t make these changes without giving yourself a budget. And to save money, check out the online clearance sections of places like Target, Wal-Mart, and Kirklands where you will find some amazing decor for a low price.  Plus you can have it shipped to the store for FREE.

In the spirit of spring cleaning, I’m having a spring cleaning contest and giving away Spring-scented candles and a Kirklands gift card to a few lucky loyal readers.  All you have to do is comment with your tips and go-to tools for spring cleaning to be entered. 

Be sure to share this post with a friend on social media using hashtag #onefaithjourney.

Be inspired & remember, you gotta have faith!

Tamika W.

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